So I won’t really talk about those
things, because to my mind, those aspects of the show have been reviewed by
dozens of worthy reviewers, the New Yorker, the New York Times, The Mary Sue
and Bitch Flicks, just to name a few. (If you’re not really sure of the plot or
premise of the movie, you should definitely Wikipedia it, as I’m not really
going to talk about that here, considering that so many other reviewers and
websites have already provided a synopsis for it.)
One of the aspects that struck me in
the show though, is the portrayal of motherhood. Far from being absent or swept
to the side, the film’s mothers play a driving force in the plot development
and are some of the most multi-dimensional of the series, (credit has to be
given to the actresses who play them).
There are thee instances of
motherhood being portrayed here: Cercei and Lady Arryn’s obsessive, spoiling,
“my child is a god” kind of motherhood, Lady Stark’s “good mom” style, and
lastly, the Dothraki queen Daenerys Targaryen’s pregnancy where she is
worshipped by her people.
Lady Arryn is crazy, we can see
that; Hell, the other characters can see that and are sending concerned glances
to each other whenever she speaks and this outlandish behavior is most noticeable
in regards to her son. Her child is a picture perfect example (almost a
caricature) of the spoiled child—the kind of spoiled child who still nurses at
the age of ten (which, no matter what you say, is always weird). Her kind of
motherhood, the indulgent, nothing-is-wrong-with my child is interesting in
that it also coincides with her isolation, as her castle is one that is almost
completely cut-off from the world.
It’s a common trope, the mother who
does everything for her son, so much so that we never see outside of the role
of mother. She appears to have nothing else in her life and so instead showers
him with inappropriate attention.
There is another example of spoiling
a child, one in which the child is in the later stages of his aberrant and
spoiled behavior. Lady Cersei though is a different kind of mother from the
unstable and isolated Lady Arryn. Cersei is the mother to a prince, and then
later, to a king and her kind of mothering seems to revolve around the
difficult lifestyle of maintaining power for her son, and therefore for her.
It’s a selfish sort of spoiling, one in which the son is used as a way to
protect the mothers status, a situation she is able to maintain by creating an
“Us vs. Them” mentality in the cruel Joffrey.
In both instances, their treatment
of their children is one way that the case for their “evilness” is created; it
appears that the road to creating an evil female character is to highlight the
way that she uses her children, in that here, the children become a mirror for the
mother. It’s a common trope, motherhood being the most unselfish of occupations
and perhaps the most revered, therefore in order for a woman to be truly evil,
she must also be a bad mother.
So two examples of bad motherhood,
one completely consumed by her child, the other only consumed by her child
because of the power and status it offers her, both characters however revealed
by their relationship to their children (something I find a little frustrating,
personally).
Then there is the nice mother; there
always has to be a nice mom. Someone who legitimately cares for her children
and does her best to offer them a stable and happy home, free from a “take
whatever you want” kind of attitude, and while that is how the lovely Lady
Stark begins (every time someone says Stark in the show though, I totally think
of Iron Man and subsequently, Robert Downey Jr.; it’s a happy thought), she
ends up being a very different kind of mother.
I find it interesting that she
decides to join her oldest son Robb on the battlefield and become his most
valuable diplomat and negotiator, scoring him alliances and armies at every
turn. It’s possibly the most unique portrayal of motherhood in the show, in
that it morphs from kindly lady sitting by the fire, watching her sick child to
wartime confidant and advisor. The Lady Stark pounds around on her white horse,
offering counsel to her son, but also taking his commands as she rushes into
hostile camps and offers a truce here and a daughter there in exchange for a
few more soldiers. It’s a very different kind of motherhood, one that is
loving, but ultimately becomes a bit harder when she begins to bargain off her
children (giving Arya to one of Lord Frey’s sons and Robb to one of his
daughters) in order to keep them safe, and even to get what she wants: a little
revenge for her husbands death.
I suppose you can therefore read it
two ways, Lady Stark is merely caught between a rock and a hard place and is
doing what she must in order to protect them, or she, like the other mothers, is
willing to use her children in order to fulfill her own selfish ends. I’ll let
you decide in her case.
The last instance of motherhood is
rather short-lived and consists mostly of pregnancy; I’m referring to the
delicate-turned-fiery (literally) Daenerys Targaryen and her unborn son.
Daenerys is queen (by marriage) of the Dothraki, a war-like, horse-loving
people of nomads and once she gets pregnant with a son (it’s always a son) she
becomes an object of worship for her people. Her ability to become impregnated
elevates and causes an outpouring of love for her amongst her people, a
circumstance that I see repeated often in films and even in our society.
The worship of fertility has a huge
place in our history: fertility gods, fertility idols, fertility rites are
everywhere as a symbol of the divine power inherent in childbirth. Now, I am
not a mother, I’ve never had children, but I see it even today, the belief that
the pregnant lady can do no wrong (believe me friends, she can); I’m not trying
to belittle this situation, or even criticize it, merely pointing out it’s
prevalence in our society.
In a specific scene, Daenerys is
kneeling on a dais, surrounded by people cheering her name, while she eats a
raw horse heart as a power ritual designed to give her son strength. Daenerys
is in positioned above everyone else as she takes on the divine mother role;
she is to be the deliverer of a mighty new son and ruler, a vessel of the
future.
However, I find this problematic
sometimes, as it seems to suggest that Daenerys’ worth is directly tied to her
ability to be used by something else (in this case, her child). Though perhaps
that analogy doesn’t work in this situation as she ends up sacrificing her own
son’s life in order to save her husband. So again, in this series, the child
becomes something to be used in order to achieve her own ends.
On a depressing note, I guess what
I’m saying is, the mothers in Game of
Thrones are not very nice mothers.
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